Neon Desert
/Santi's first music festival! He had a great time watching his dad paint and exploring the festival with his cousin Ricky and BFF Chadi! These boys are TOO COOL!!
Santi's first music festival! He had a great time watching his dad paint and exploring the festival with his cousin Ricky and BFF Chadi! These boys are TOO COOL!!
The El Paso Chihuahuas!
For Santi's latest trip, (His forth flight since he first started flying 2 months ago, if you're keeping track!) We took him to visit my grandparents in East Texas. They have a lovely farm, about 180+ acres, brimming with little boy adventures. There are tractors, motorcycles and a 4 wheeler with no brakes. Acres and acres of thick woods to stomp around in and several gardens which he plowed with his toy tractor.
Within 5 minutes of being on the farm Papa had Santi and I up in a tractor cruising the property. I was pretty sure Santi's head was going to explode with excitement. Santi started saying a new word after that, "Papa!" "Papa!" He fell in love with my Papa. They bonded instantly. Later in the week Papa took him on the riding lawn mower and fed him freshly picked wild berries.
I lived in Houston as a kid, a 4 hour drive from the farm and my mom would take us there for almost every school holiday and a few weeks every summer. It is such a special place for me. It is quite and calm, rich in nature and enchantment. Green and lush. Seeing Santi here, enjoying the company of grandmother and papa was simply beautiful.
Another great flight with this guy! He's a natural traveler.
For Santi's second airborne adventure, we flew to El Paso. He's been to EP a dozen times, but this was his first time flying there! He did great!
Abe and I both love to travel. I hope our enthusiasm for traveling rubs off on Santi. There is no greater teacher than adventure.
He's TWO!!!
All of these beautiful images were shot by Corey Villicana at the Oceanside Pier.
Taking Santi on his first flight is a HUGE deal for us. His cardiologists originally said he wouldn't be able to fly until after his third surgery. That date is still TBD. A few months ago we asked his cardiologist what he thought about Santi flying. His response was, "sure, why not!" Wait. What?! We sat on this idea for almost 6 months before we booked his first flight. To Las Vegas!
When the day came, we were nervous for his health. Would he maintain his blood oxygen saturation at 30,000ft? We were nervous to travel with a toddler. Would he have a tantrum on the plane? Would he scream for the duration of the flight?
Lucky for us, Santi did amazing. He loved flying. He loved Las Vegas. That city is made for toddlers. He was in awe of the lights and the larger than life decor in all the hotels.
Abe's family met us there, including our Nephew Ricky, who will be one in April. Santi is such a sweet big cousin. He loves his baby cousin.
Hanging out with his best buddy Kai!
Someone found daddy's old glasses.
This little cutie had a rough day. He took a spill at the park, resulting in a bruised chin and a scratch on his thumb. His nap was short and his tantrums were many. And we couldn't love him more. Even on the fussiest of days he lights up our lives.
Playing with cars and Stella. His two favorite things to do.
February is CHD awareness month.
CHD stands for Congenital Heart Defect. HLHS is rare, it "comprises 4-8% of all congenital heart defects. It occurs in up to four out of every 10,000 live births. HLHS appears slightly more often in boys than in girls. Beyond family history, there are no clear risk factors for it, and no known way to prevent it."
It's funny to think that with everything we've been through with Santiago, (two open heart surgeries, a total of 7 weeks at CHLA, 4 months on oxygen) we rarely think of him as different or as having a heart defect. We rarely think of "all he's been through!" He is SO normal (whatever that is?!). He is just a charming little guy who's almost two years old.
I love sharing his story and instilling hope in other families. Santi is proof that modern medicine is marvelous. He is proof that you can still be a regular kid, even with a rare CHD like HLHS.
Santi overload is coming! 28 days of Santiago Banks in honor of CHD awareness!
There is a famous steakhouse just east of El Paso, called Cattlemans. The property surrounding the Restaurant is an actual ranch and small zoo. We took Santi last week and loved seeing all of the animals up close. He made friends with the bunnies, goats, longhorns, llamas, a donkey, peacocks and buffalo! So cool!
Last month, before we left for El Paso, Santi had a sedated echocardiogram at Rady Children's Hospital in San Diego. I didn't post about it because we didn't have a follow up with the cardiologist after the echo. So really, there was nothing to post about.
We will meet with Santi's cardiologist next week to get the results of the echo, find out how his overall heart function is doing and maybe, hopefully get a date range for his third surgery, the Fontan.
Our best friends in El Paso have a son who is just 7 months younger than Santi. It's so fun to watch the progression of their interaction. The age gap is slowly closing. Also, unplanned matching jackets!